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Take a break. Deactivating your profile in Settings hides it from other members' searches. Nothing is deleted, and you can reactivate it there.
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Delete your account in Settings. You have 30 days to cancel; after that your profile, photos and messages are deleted. Payment and invoice records, and our security records, are kept.
Educational Guides
Understanding Divorce
A comprehensive guide covering emotional, practical, and procedural aspects of the divorce journey.
Emotional stages
Practical considerations
Moving forward
Transition Checklist
A jurisdiction-neutral checklist to help you organize important tasks and documents.
Document organization
Financial planning
Self-care reminders
Emotional Recovery
Resources for emotional healing, self-care practices, and building resilience.
Coping strategies
Self-care activities
Building support
Professional Directory
Connect with qualified professionals who can provide guidance and support.
Note: These resources are for informational purposes only and do not constitute legal, medical, or professional advice.
Therapist Finder
Find licensed mental health professionals specializing in life transitions and relationship issues.
Mediator Directory
Access certified mediators who can help facilitate constructive dialogue and resolution.
Legal Aid Resources
Information about legal aid services and resources. We do not provide legal advice.
For legal advice, please consult a qualified attorney in your jurisdiction.
Support Hotlines & Helplines
If you need immediate support, these helplines are available to assist you.
Tools to help coordinate schedules, track expenses, and maintain healthy communication for your children's wellbeing.
Custody Calendar
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Expense Split Tracker
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Communication Journal
The co-parenting journal is not available yet. Entries typed here are not saved, so keep your own record of important conversations and decisions.
Shared Notes
Information both parents need to know about the children — medications,
allergies, doctor, school. Stored end-to-end encrypted; visible only to
co-parents who consent to share.
Encrypted shared notes not yet available
For privacy and safety, shared notes (medications, allergies, doctor info,
school contacts) require end-to-end encryption + co-parent consent.
That feature ships when
/api/v1/divorce-support/co-parenting/{user_id}/shared-notes
lands. Until then, keep these records in your personal documents
(and never share medical advice with an unverified party).
Enhanced Blocking & Reporting
Protect yourself from unwanted contact. Blocked users cannot see your profile, message you, or find you in search results.
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Evidence Vault
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Escalation Workflow
Report serious concerns to our moderation team. Every report goes to them for review.
Emergency Contact Quick-Access
Keep your emergency contacts easily accessible. In case of immediate danger, always contact local authorities first.
Fresh Start Journey
Ready for a new beginning? We are here to support you every step of the way. Take your time - there is no rush.
Readiness Self-Assessment
This private assessment helps you reflect on your readiness for a new relationship. Your answers are not shared with anyone.
1. How would you describe your emotional healing journey?
2. What are you hoping to find in a new relationship?
3. How do you feel about discussing your past relationship?
Fresh Start Profile Wizard
Create or update your profile with guidance tailored for your new chapter. This wizard will help you present yourself authentically.
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Preferences
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Review
Disclosure Settings
You control what you share. Choose how and when to disclose your marital history on your profile.
Marital Status Display
Choose how your marital status appears on your profile.
Reason for Divorce
Optionally share a brief, positive-framed explanation.
Blended Family Settings
Configure settings related to children and family preferences.
I have children
Partner with children
Parenting Philosophy (Optional)
Share your approach to parenting to find like-minded partners.