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Account Options

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Take a break. Deactivating your profile in Settings hides it from other members' searches. Nothing is deleted, and you can reactivate it there.

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Delete your account in Settings. You have 30 days to cancel; after that your profile, photos and messages are deleted. Payment and invoice records, and our security records, are kept.

Educational Guides

Understanding Divorce

A comprehensive guide covering emotional, practical, and procedural aspects of the divorce journey.

  • Emotional stages
  • Practical considerations
  • Moving forward

Transition Checklist

A jurisdiction-neutral checklist to help you organize important tasks and documents.

  • Document organization
  • Financial planning
  • Self-care reminders

Emotional Recovery

Resources for emotional healing, self-care practices, and building resilience.

  • Coping strategies
  • Self-care activities
  • Building support

Professional Directory

Connect with qualified professionals who can provide guidance and support. Note: These resources are for informational purposes only and do not constitute legal, medical, or professional advice.

Therapist Finder

Find licensed mental health professionals specializing in life transitions and relationship issues.

Mediator Directory

Access certified mediators who can help facilitate constructive dialogue and resolution.

Legal Aid Resources

Information about legal aid services and resources. We do not provide legal advice.

For legal advice, please consult a qualified attorney in your jurisdiction.

Support Hotlines & Helplines

If you need immediate support, these helplines are available to assist you.

Co-Parenting Planner

Tools to help coordinate schedules, track expenses, and maintain healthy communication for your children's wellbeing.

Custody Calendar

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Expense Split Tracker

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Communication Journal

The co-parenting journal is not available yet. Entries typed here are not saved, so keep your own record of important conversations and decisions.

Shared Notes

Information both parents need to know about the children — medications, allergies, doctor, school. Stored end-to-end encrypted; visible only to co-parents who consent to share.

Encrypted shared notes not yet available

For privacy and safety, shared notes (medications, allergies, doctor info, school contacts) require end-to-end encryption + co-parent consent. That feature ships when /api/v1/divorce-support/co-parenting/{user_id}/shared-notes lands. Until then, keep these records in your personal documents (and never share medical advice with an unverified party).

Enhanced Blocking & Reporting

Protect yourself from unwanted contact. Blocked users cannot see your profile, message you, or find you in search results.

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Evidence Vault

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Escalation Workflow

Report serious concerns to our moderation team. Every report goes to them for review.

Emergency Contact Quick-Access

Keep your emergency contacts easily accessible. In case of immediate danger, always contact local authorities first.

Fresh Start Journey

Ready for a new beginning? We are here to support you every step of the way. Take your time - there is no rush.

Readiness Self-Assessment

This private assessment helps you reflect on your readiness for a new relationship. Your answers are not shared with anyone.

1. How would you describe your emotional healing journey?

2. What are you hoping to find in a new relationship?

3. How do you feel about discussing your past relationship?

Fresh Start Profile Wizard

Create or update your profile with guidance tailored for your new chapter. This wizard will help you present yourself authentically.

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Disclosure Settings

You control what you share. Choose how and when to disclose your marital history on your profile.

Marital Status Display

Choose how your marital status appears on your profile.

Reason for Divorce

Optionally share a brief, positive-framed explanation.

Blended Family Settings

Configure settings related to children and family preferences.

I have children

Partner with children

Parenting Philosophy (Optional)

Share your approach to parenting to find like-minded partners.